I fantasized myself being force to strip and bend over with my ass up, fully exposed to a group of guys. Just talking about it has been exciting. Sorry to disappoint the husbands here, but there is not a 10 step program to convert your wife. Your choice should only have the motive to help you guys have this experience in the most positive way. Be sure to tell her how much you liked something. Tell her to let the skirts and dresses ride high enough so that other people can see that you are wearing stockings and garters. Hold onto your pants or don't! At that time, my hubby succeeded in making me an exhibitionist but I drew the line on going to bed with others.
Immediately, after our marriage he started encouraging me to wear sexy clothes and brought me to those shops on a regular basis to buy new clothes for me. Would it turn you on to see guys with me like that? Tell her to go to work and occasionally forget to wear bra and panties to the office. The following are some of the gradual approaches that you might use to turn your wife into a hotwife. Well after we were together for 6 years and around our 3rd Wedding Anniversary, it happened. You would have to give them all blow jobs. I agree with most, that invading her private email and admitting to it is a bad idea.
Zero in on a few, then zero in on her ex as the best and most likely candidate. In fact, he was hard at this point. There are a lot of pitfalls that have to be managed with multiple partners — many have been mentioned in other answers. During their sex be sure and rub yourself or play with your cock. Moving forward The types of clothes that she needs to be wearing on a regular basis are sheer to waist pantyhose, stockings, sheer bras, decorative stockings and shorter skirts. Even just asking her to wear something around the house or just in the bedroom will let her know that she is desirable. Good news - you've found exactly what you've been looking for, right here in this handy little guide to the beautiful life for married women.
I said, ''We used to have sex a lot more and you are still an attractive woman so I know you get plenty of opportunities. I take care of all the cleaning, laundry, meals and care to all my wifes needs. And you can start changing that today with your free Hot Wife Starter Kit. After that occurs it is a crap shoot that she will include you. This was becoming a revealing discussion. Overtime you can let her go out on dates with other men or have a regular lover that shows up at 9pm every Wednesday to be with her.
Do your home work before you start. He got by my side and asked me about my drawing as if not noticing my suggestive pose but while discussing it he shyly slid his hand under my skirt. Does she love him dearly and shows it with loving sex but is just one of those women who needs more? You can steer the conversation towards how hot she is. This will also set the tone and bar for the types of individuals of future. My husband told me that looking at me going at it with another man or woman for that matter he sees me in a difference perspective, sees my most intimate from further away. I wish you all the best of luck in whatever decision you all choose.
It does work and may not be reversible. My ex-husband was a womanizer. It took my husband about six months of daily so-called brainwashing before I was finally convinced to take the big step into this role. This was my chance to see her do this! Be alert for that, and prepared to change gears if he feels angst after orgasm. But, your husband sounds like.
Now at some point you will just have to make some arrangements for another man to be able to play with her tits. I also agree with the comment that this fantasy is a disempowerment fantasy and, like femdom, is becoming very popular in Western porn due to the perception reality? He can never look at her the same again. Tell her how that skirt really accents the shape of her ass. Conditioning and manipulating your wife is serious and could have a negative outcome. A couple of years ago I asked my wife if she would be interested in sleeping with another guy as I wouldn't mind if she did. The forces involved are large.
But she did cheat, and that's not good for any relationship. The reality is the amount of control or influence you have on her decisions and actions is not in your control. I have read a few times where the husband has literally pleaded with the wife for years to do this, and on the very first occasion it happens he ends up filing for divorce in the aftermath. I won't have that with any of them. The things that you will be changing include everything from clothes to food. I said, And I'm sure word about you will get around. Now that he's opened up about his fantasies, we've taken a couple naughty photos recently.
Ironically, as a man, I cherish the fact that I know of flaws with my wife that nobody else knows about - the knowledge of being the only man aware of it makes our relationship even more special. But I love how this turns my husband on! It will all be up to your wife. Thats because if you come across a true successful lifestyle couple online or in person you will find both their names and participation with it. Of course she will like the praise and attention from the other man but that is secondary. As you tell her repeatedly how certain clothes make her look, you will notice that she wears those particular clothes more often. I'm away most weekends and she has told him to come around our house this Saturday as she has the house to herself. Every swinger website for example covers the jealously angle heavily.