And so infidelity and disrespect continues and degradation because somewhere in the human psyche both men and women do not feel they deserve anything and have stopped expecting anything from anyone including their husbands and parents and friends. We eventually got married and we now have been married happily for 3 years with a son. And if I slipped up in the midst of our relationship, why not just leave? And when you dare to tell me you love me, I will smile back and say, I love you, too because I can play your game, better. Seems like everyone wins to me. I agree to some degree with many of your points. Instead of cheating or leaving, just be single and date. Husbands do not care, if they love their wife,why, why? Better yet if a couple can be open and agree to such an arrangement, but that's so out of the norm in our society at least publicly that it often is not even considered.
But it is my fault for letting it get this way. But now he left us to new york in search of a lady. I think it will be better at home when I'm not continuously haunted by what part of life I'm missing out on. In my opinion some men lack commitment, loyalty, and are very in mature. It costs you energy to lie, and your spouse is being cheated in another sense than usual thought; you cheat her from knowing you and from knowing there is a potential risk to the relationship. She only cares about how we make her feel sexually.
That's where the love really is. Mentioning friend, let me tell everyone reading my testimonial. Men and women operate differently, therefore you cannot treat women as though they should respond the way you would. Im going to answer this as a woman cheater. If your man cheats on you, leave. It leaves absolutely no room for the same devastating void that can be left behind when a wife becomes emotionally withdrawn from the marriage. My book will be out this summer.
If more people were committed to their relationships, and willing to put in the work needed to maintain it, maybe it'd be less cheating going on. I hurt so many people and I truly have remorse for what I did, I also know what my trigger is and will not stray again. I hold two graduate degrees and my bachelors' is in psychology. All a Loyal Woman really wants from us as a man is us our attention. As I tell any brother or man about relationships is to be wise and watchout for temptation. Thank you, I just v got off the phone with a guy I met who clearly had a different idea on why men cheat. Thanks for sharing My recent post Hi im currently with a black man who is cheating with a black girl now im no broke down ugly white woman if you ever seen me I look like one of the kardashian sisters everybody wanted me I had so many oportunities to cheat but never did now this girl is following me around even though me and him are not together and iv seen at least 3other girls includeing a pretty homely blonde white girl that hes been with while being with the side peice who started the others stalking me as well and get this I left and moved on to a white man and black girls will still hit on him white girls too but I got to admitt I think tyler perry should completely rewrite diary of a mad black woman so what do you think on all this And then why do you say wisdom is misery do yall like being like that evidently you just dont like it being pointed out on it cause theres no problem you have in doing the bullshit cause one she got him and two he got her as well it does take two or ever how many agree to it you just dont dont like getting frowned upon by everyone else but you the one that said you didnt care so that would mean you should be apathetic in entirety unless ofcourse black girls that do these things are just prejudice towards other races of women that being said why do they go after other races of men cause just like a back man wrote wisdom is misery without wisdom yo stupid asses will do nothing but sit back and take that bullshit and if you dont take a stand shell keep dong the shit to you why not wisdom is misery right I will love to share my testimony to all the people in the forum cos i never thought i will have my girlfriend back and she means so much to me.
I tried all my possible means to get her back,after much begging,but all to no avail and she confirmed it that she has made her decision,and she never wanted to see me again. Although he felt connected to his wife, Scott says he started to feel insecure when Colleen's mother passed away. I'm the one who isn't getting my needs met properly, so I'm simply doing what I need to do. I am an extremely visual female. Im having fun but im not looking for a relationship.
Gary says the other woman often makes the man feel better about himself. And expect the same consequences. And does it signal to him that he can continue to cheat if a woman takes him back? Love is not enough, a relationship needs trust and respect to thrive. I disagree, because that belief dictates that emotion is what drives people to cheat or remain faithful. I had a sick feeling one day and looked. I cant really remember the rest, but once a choice is made- good or bad there are consequences that follow.
My mother raised a future husband, not a hoe. Men also tend to stick with their guns in a relationship. The question you have to ask yourself is: Do you want a weak man as your partner? So many women, when they find out their husbands cheat, they know right away who he's been cheating with because he's been talking about her, Gary says. As the person who messed up, you have to have at least have some bit of humility. He still ahs not left his wife and children, he moved out but he says they are the ones that keep calling him for help.
She's probably there with her homegirls for entertainment purposes, not to find another man, and the intent is not malicious. Ubakassi kindly email he via his private email address: or call he via his mobile number: +2348140276620 Thanks for reading my testimony and i pray that God should also use Dr. I miss giving those full body deep tissue massages after her long day. The reaction is also typical because human beings do not want to face facts especially if you want to defend your actions. I agree with everything you wrote. I understand the context of the situation and the intent. But by their own admission women do not get aroused initially - they get into after 10 mins physical arousal.