That's one more white person who knows why I'm going to arrogantly list off my academic and professional achievements if some white person asks me if I play basketball. I like Asian girls, they're nice unless they just fall into demonstrating that they have something about their personality that isn't very good then I just shut the door on them completely. That does not make me special because my 3 most important mentors outside of my father are white men. I have no time for such games. I had one girlfriend in high school who strictly forbade doorbell ringing. Critiquing my body became a regular occurrence after that.
To a white guy who's only interaction with black people is through popular media, he won't have an accurate view of black women. Sometimes, you find you will make friends who are not interested in romance, but are interested in friendship. I've always been more attracted to white boys though haha. For example, I am sure that the names James Armistead and Prince Whipple don't ring a bell. We have set up an online dating system at AfroRomance that makes it easy and desirable for members to get to know each other, and decide in their own time whether they want to meet face to face. My mom did a good thing because when I was really small she would show me pictures of people of all different races and colors so I would be exposed to different races even though I lived in an area where most people are white. I actually am more attracted to white guys than I am to my own race! I'm a black chick and I love white guys.
I am originally from Chicago - which is supposed to be a diverse town, but it is really segregated and racist than most people think. They constantly bash their own women calling them rude, ghetto, ugly, and say white women treat their men better. Many more white men are dating and marrying black women now days. So true I love white boys all boys at that haha I like boys of all races. I don't like the braids or whatever they may be called, I love the jet black hair, I like the hair straight or maybe curly depending on her natural beauty. So instead of an oily or do not touch look.
I can tell you that most black girls who like white boys don't show it because their afraid that white boys don't like them. Researchers tested 176 police officers, mostly white males, average age 37, in large urban areas, to determine their levels of two distinct types of bias — prejudice and unconscious dehumanization of black people by comparing them to apes. I must admit I have always been attracted to black women but I was just too shy. The area in which you live in could be a bummer. Black men who are confused and self-hating muddle this further, and even more so if they have biracial children who turn out to be the same way.
Don't do any of those and you'll be gold. So when I came here I was surprised, pleasantly surprised; Because the black girls. The other thing is that I often meet a black girl that goes to church but is often more wild than some church going white girl. . Same as any man of any other color. Most these hot white girls are perpetually single because they're spoiled brats.
First because I feel super comfortable around them - I don't feel like I have to control my words. Mexican, Spanish and Latino men are among some of my most common. I grew up lower middle class but my intellect got me accepted me to much, much better schools. I began attending parties where I was one of the few white people. Truth be told, it's important to me that they also get where I'm coming from and know that I'm not one of these sellouts who views them as undesirable. Most black guys that approach me can just be so crass that I pretty much ignore them.
It's sad that you all are treated this way but it's the way it is. It makes me want to step up look etc. Now if she's bi-polar or something like that though then that won't fly, I need a stable girl, a girl that's gonna help me through the rough stuff in life. I was out with a white girl I dated at The Graham in East Williamsburg and a black woman came up to me and asked me why was I dating a white girl when she can't even get a man. All I saw around me were white girls.
I really think since I was a little kid I've always like black girls. But Me I love how damn sexy and beautiful black girls are! So if I were to follow the general trend as I understand it, I am most likely to be attracted to white men because those are the people I grew up around the most. But it's harder for black men to make it make it in society and everyone knows this. When I went to Berkeley I noticed only the college educated white guys seemed interested anymore, not that I didn't get a wanksta tryna holla but usually not. I actually like them a whole hell of a lot. I had to carry pepper spray just to pick my kids up from the bus stop because the harassment got so bad.